Learn British English : Sex Vocabulary | เรียนรู้คำศัพท์ภาษาอังกฤษบริติช เรื่อง เซ็กส์
Learn British English : Sex Vocabulary | เรียนรู้คำศัพท์ภาษาอังกฤษบริติช เรื่อง เซ็กส์
สำหรับโพสท์นี้ จะพูดถึง คำศัพท์ สำนวน เกี่ยวกับการมีเซ็กส์ สามารถใช้คำไหนได้บ้าง ในภาษาไทย หมายถึง การมีเพศสัมพันธ์ การหลับนอนกัน การมีอะไรกัน การได้เสียกัน ฯลฯ ในภาษาอังกฤษก็เช่นเดียวกัน มีหลายคำ แต่ความหมายเดียวกัน ขึ้นอยู่กับการใช้ในระดับใด บางคำใช้เป็นทางการ บางคำถือเป็นคำหยาบ ดังนั้น เมื่อนักศึิกษาฟังคลิปนี้จบ ก็จะสามารถรู้ได้ว่า คำไหนนำไปใช้ในกรณีใดได้บ้าง ต้องระมัดระวังเป็นพิเศษ เพราะเป็นคำต้องห้าม
คำอธิบายเพิ่มเติม ผมจะเขียนไว้ล้างสุดของโพสท์นี้ ถัดจาก สคริป เป้าหมายคือ ให้เรามีทักษะการฟัง การอ่าน การออกเสียง วิธีการพูด การเชื่อมคำพูด นอกจากนั้น ก็จะได้ความรู้เรื่องศัพท์ สาระต่างๆ ไปด้วย
หลังจากที่เราได้ฟังคลิปทั้งหมดแล้ว จะสามารถให้ความหมายของศัพท์สำคัญๆ ที่ผมทำไฮไลท์สีแดงไว้
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This is sex education not an x-rated movie if you don't know me already my name is Anna English and if you're here to learn English then make sure you click on that subscribe button and keep watching.
So let's talk about sex shall we sexual intercourse, primarily sexual intercourse is the action that takes place in order to produce a baby.
The age of consent in the UK is 16 years old.
The age of consent means the age at which you are allowed by law to have sex, however, the age of consent will change depending on which country you are in.
so what is the age of consent in your country someone who has never had sex is called a virgin, virgin and it doesn't matter if you're a male or a female.
The word virgin is used for both genders the state of never having had sex is called "your virginity", your virginity and when we have sex for the very first time
we use the phrase "I lost my virginity" I don't know where my virginity is has anybody seen my virginity
I lost my virginity I can't find it anywhere I'm just looking for my virginity
oh you might hear the phrase "premarital sex" premarital sex premarital sex is sex before marriage.
so if you have sex before you are married then you are having premarital sex.
Premarital sex is quite common in the UK with a majority of Brits losing their virginity between the ages of 16 and 18 years old.
Is it different in your country?
Let me know in the comments below if you choose not to have sex at all possibly because of religious reasons then you are said to "be celibate", cilebate to cheat this is to have sex secretly outside of a committed relationship whether you are just dating someone or whether you are engaged or married.
If you have secretive sex with somebody else then you are said to be "cheating".
Formal and safe words for sex would be sexual intercourse, sexual relations I did not have sexual relations with that woman make love darling you look so ravishing would you like to make love tonight nothing would give me greater pleasure than to make love to you all night and sleep with.
I'm sorry to ask such a personal question but did you and mr. Jones sleep together
I only slept with him once two very old-fashioned and out-of-date words are "fornicate"
they fornicated until the early hours of the morning and "copulate"
I don't know why but every time I look at my wife I just want to copulate with her.
if we're talking about animals having sex and only use this word when we're talking about animals having sex we use "mate", to mate
so animals mated or they are mating ,so if those are the formal terms what are the informal terms for sex the kind of terms.
You would use when you're talking to your friends and the people that you feel comfortable with.
well, you can say "do it" did you did you do it last night "bonk" this word makes me laugh because when I was younger this word just reminds me of the French word bank book.
I didn't get any sleep last night because Jennifer and Nick were bonking all night, "get laid", so you'd say did you get laid you "got laid" okay.
you can also say school did you "score" last night yes
I scored whoa quite a common phrase at the moment is the phrase" hook up" did you to hook up did you hook up with that guy
did you "hook up" with that girl, you can also say did you "get lucky" or did you "get busy" or even did you "get it on" one of the most recent additions to this list is Netflix and chill would you like to come over for some net and chill the term "Netflix and chill" refers to going around to somebody's house watching a film on Netflix and chilling out but not really chilling out
and not really watching the film but instead getting cozy on the couch and things happening you know what I mean if someone asks you did you go all the way
then they're asking whether you had sex, you could respond with yes we went all the way or we went some of the way if you didn't have full sex but some things happened.
similar to the phrase score is home run and this kind of comes from baseball if you "go all the way" around and you hit a "home run" which is what everybody wants then in this context it means to "have sex" I hit a home run but it's not as popular here in the UK to use that phrase you could just very simply use the phrase "get some", did you get some, I got some last night, did you get some.
now some words have to be handled with extreme caution these words to some natives are fine but to other natives can come across as rude crude and quite offensive so be very careful if choosing
to use any of these words safety first my safety goggles and my safety gloves
okay I'm ready the first word is "shag" shag did you to shag last night we were shagging all night long this one is considered a light swear word.
now the next words are generally nouns but in this case they used as verbs and they sound a little aggressive and they are to "screw" to screw they screwed,
he screwed her "bang" they banged he banged her she banged him nail he "nailed" her it just sounds so violent "bone" bone he boned her with his bone.
we'll talk about that in a moment "pound" not the kind of pound you put in your pocket or used to pay for your ice cream no he pounded her again it just sounds violent "do the nasty"
I mean it uses the word nasty that's why it just sounds nasty did you do the nasty " bump uglies" bump uglies they bumped their ugly gentles together they bumped uglies and the last but by no means the least in fact this is probably the one you must use the most caution with and this is the word fuck did you fuck him did you "fuck" her they fucked each other it's not very nice I don't like it but there you go bad words let's move on as I mentioned at the beginning it's not just married people who have sex and if you have sex outside of marriage
it's called premarital sex but there are other terms that you should be aware of.
if you only have sex with a person one time it can be a stranger you've met on a night out it could be a friend that you've had for a very long time or it could be someone that you know a little bit and one night you just have sex,
if it's just once then this is referred to as a "one-night stand", a one-night stand happened the once if you have sex more than once but there's never any commitment there's never any promise to
be exclusive to one another, there's never any promise of anything more if it's just occasional sex then this is called either fooling around or more commonly "casual sex' we're just having casual sex there's no strings which means there's no commitment we're just having casual sex if you have a very
short sexual relationship let's say you're having sex with one person for a few months and it's very passionate but it's only for a few months and you know that it's not going to progress into anything more serious then you could refer to this as a fling a fling we're having a fling we have a fling if you're having sex with one person who you really care about you're committed to you don't want to have sex with anybody else then you are considered to be in a relationship
so you might tell someone I am in a relationship and other terms you could use I'm dating someone we are together so if I meet two people and I'll say how do you know each other they'd say oh we're together we're in a relationship we're together some couples are in a committed relationship and yet they decide to allow their partner to go and have sex with somebody else there's usually some rules around this arrangement but if this is the case then it's called an open relationship where the couple are committed to one another but they openly allow their partner to sleep with other people to have sex with other people if a married person has sex with someone other than the person they're married to so it's not their husband or their wife they have sex with somebody else this is called "extramarital sex" otherwise known as a "affair" you would say I am "having an affair" I am having extramarital sex my husband or my wife does not know that I am having sex with somebody else if this is the case then you are said to be cheating on your partner and we tend to use the word on with cheating.
I am cheating on you, you are cheating on me, he is cheating on her, other words for cheating are adultery, infidelity, being unfaithful and as I already mentioned having an affair but whether you're in a committed relationship cheating having a one-night stand or just having a fling one thing is for
certain you are generally having sex with somebody you like and it all starts when you first see someone and you like them.
if you like them in a sexual way then you are attracted to them, they are attractive to you, and when you find somebody attractive, then you could say wow she is smoking hot or simply she is hot, you could use the word cute, he is cute , she is cute, however, this is more of an American term than a British English term, in Britain we do use cute but cute is more often used to talk about children or baby animals cute you could say sexy wow he is sexy you could say fit she is fit and usually when talking about a girl you could use the word foxy she's a foxy lady oh yeah if you're going to tell your friend that you find someone attractive then you could say oh I've really got the hots for him, it's true I really like her, I didn't want to admit it but I think I'm falling for you.
I've just got such a crush on him I've tried to get him off my mind but I'm just infatuated with him,
so you see someone you like, you've used some chat up line, you've probably learned by listening to a video, I don't know with say me and Ally teaching you about chat up lines, the chat up line broke the ice and then the conversation starts flowing and everything's going really really well you start to feel excited, sexually excited the work we use here is the word aroused , you feel aroused now when a man is aroused it's much more obvious than when a woman is aroused if you know what I mean when a man is aroused his penis fills with blood and it becomes big and hard.
this is what you call an erection whew erection he is erect slang terms for the word erection are "lob on", "hard-on" , stiffy, standing to attention, boner, he's got a boner there's also a term for when
you're halfway aroused when you are only half standing up to attention. so if you're only half erect this would be called a semi on a semi on like that a semi on if somebody has trouble getting an erection and their penis is just flaccid or floppy then that is called erectile dysfunction, erectile dysfunction but if a woman is aroused it's less obvious a woman might produce vaginal lubrication ,but we would never say vaginal lubrication , we would never say, oh I'm aroused,
I have vaginal lubrication we would say wet or moist, although a lot of women hate the word moist ,we would say I am wet or I feel wet or a man might say oh you're wet, you must be aroused I'm doing this for play foreplay , foreplay means every action leading up to sex but not including sex.
so it might be embracing, for example, other words for embracing our hug and cuddle and it wouldn't
usually involve kissing , now there are different types of kisses, a simple kiss like this is called a peck, a peck and we normally will specify where we get a peck, so you might say a peck on the
cheek, he gave me a peck on the cheek or we would say he gave me a peck on the lips, he gave me a peck on the lips, so a peck on the cheek or a peck on the lips, a more involved kiss may be we open the mouth and use our tongues this could be referred to as a snog or as a French kiss or just simply a proper kiss, he gave me a proper kiss if things start to become quite intense.
then you could say things are heating up, oh if things do start heating up while you're hugging and kissing, then your hands might start wandering around each other's bodies and this can be referred
to as touching up. you are touching each other up, you can also say feel up, she felt me up, he felt me up they felt each other up, oh you may also hear the word grope, this does mean to touch somebody or to grab somebody to grope them, but it's a little bit more negative than the other words in some cases, grope can mean that the person who is grabbing doesn't have permission to grab, so the other person is being grabbed as being groped might not necessarily want it to happen.
so grope is not as positive as the others and a very safe term to talk about, touching somebody up is heavy petting, it's quite old-fashioned but some people do still use, it heavy petting after foreplay comes the more serious business sex on your own is referred to as masturbation, masturbation not many people will use the word masturbation because it's a bit of a mouthful and so the terms that we tend to use are wank , to have a wank men and women wank a slightly nicer way of saying, it is to
play with yourself to play with yourself , now men have many more slang terms to talk about masturbating, they could say any of the following toss off, jerk off , whack off , the Five Knuckle shuffle, bashing the bishop, choking the monkey, there are literally so many ways for a man to describe wanking and there are many more but I just don't have time to list them all there are a couple of cruder ways to describe a woman wanking, I don't like these but I'm going to tell you, what they are polishing the Pearl and flicking the bean, if you're not by yourself , you're with a lovely person and they are helping you to masturbate, for example, if someone puts their hands on your penis and helps you to wank then that could be referred to as a handjob a handjob or to wank somebody off, if you help a woman to masturbate using your fingers then we literally call it fingering somebody to finger them .
sometimes it gets a little bit more creative and a man might stick his penis between a woman's breasts and the jiggle about this is called a tip like a tit wank then of course if there's actual penetration with the penis going into a hole that is referred to as sex good old-fashioned sex as the Karma Sutra teaches us there are many positions you can adopt when having sex to make it more interesting perhaps the most common positions are called missionary position
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spooning a 69 and doggystyle or doing them from behind
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if you sexually pleasure someone using your mouth to their genitals this is called oral sex, so if you put your mouth around a man's penis this is called a blowjob, a blowjob sometimes shortened to
BJ , BJ a slang term for this is suck him off, suck him off, suck like a Hoover, giving oral sex to a woman doesn't have a specific term other than oral sex, but we tend to say go down on.
so he went down on her, he gave her oral sex , a slang term, for this is to lick her out , although that's not very nice or to eat her pussy, if there is penetration of the anus, otherwise known as the bum hole this is called anal sex , anal sex we tend to refer to it as bum sex, bum sex marriage.
yet good sex leads to a climax which is otherwise referred to as an orgasm and orgasm sometimes we call it - cum, - cum did you come, I came, did you come
yes I came as well oh very good, jolly good when a man climaxes and orgasms he will release semen or sperm sometimes also referred to as cum this is called an ejaculation, he ejaculated sometimes a man will orgasm too quickly and he will ejaculate when he doesn't want to this is called premature ejaculation, premature ejaculation, well ladies and gentlemen, I hope you found that entertaining as well as educational.
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